Kink 'n' Ink

YAY! Meeting in The Hague with beloved friends *O*. We assembled over at someone’s house and got served an awesome dinner with freshly made pita bread (super awesome coolbeans!!!). Then we where off to the play party
We arrived around 9 ish I think and I had a great evening. Spoke with a lot of old friends and new acquaintances and just had a blast overall. I still find it a tad bit annoying to have no (play)partner at these parties though, but I’m learning to cope.
My way to cope however is to go into social mode, which is not always the mode I want to be in, but it works to survive those semi empty feelings on the inside
I was having a weird night and was switching all over the place but I stabilized myself by just hanging out and being sociable

Unfortunately something crap also happened. I had a run in with a Dumbinatrix.

Dumbinatrix [Etymology];
Derived of the words Dumb [lacking intelligence or good judgment; stupid; dull-witted.] & Dominatrix [a woman who plays the dominant role in a sado-masochistic sexual relationship or encounter.].

Dumbinatrix [Practical Example];
A Dominatrix, or Domme, who feels her version is the only version of the truth. There is no room for error on her side and everyone should bow to her whims. Everyone else is a lesser being, yes, that includes you.

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So, about a few months ago I started dating a guy that I actually rather like.
Went out a couple of times and he’s a great guy.
As always I’ve been up front about how my life works. The weird love life (I’m not only Poly, I’m also open, yes, I have fuckbuddies ), the kinks, the whole 9 yards.
He understands every bit of it but after a few weeks of dating we did have to address it. See, here’s where it gets sort of complicated; he’s mono and more vanilla then kinky (why do I keep falling for these guys!?). [...]

I know I’m lacking in my blogging and even though I have a ton of things roaming around in my head I just don’t find or make the time to write down my brain farts.

Last week was hectic. A lot of appointments and social things surrounded by work work and work.

Monday I went to my new doc again. And she’s pretty awesome I can tell you that. My bloodwork cane back troubling her so she asked me to come in. We discussed the different options there are for my diabetes and eventually we decided to change my meds. I’m taking more metformine now and I have some added meds that will rev up my GLP1 values. I also have to go back to working out. Luckily she’s making it so I can deduct it from my healthcare. [...]

Last friday when I came home from a shopping spree  I found a little note in my postbox: The mailman had come by with a parcel from Germany.
I pretty much shrieked with joy and was a bit pissed off at the same time.
Technically the post is supposed to offer a parcel twice, if they don’t find you at home in the first time they offer it the next day and if you’re not home then, they drop it off at a postal point.
Thing is those aren’t usually open in the weekends so I was a bit miffed that I couldn’t pick up my cuffs ‘n collar straight away.
Some people suggested I should just try at the post point on Saturday and WOOHOOOOO Succes [...]

In may I received my vacation money, not a insane amount, but decent enough to pay off the bills that where piling up AND treat myself to something nice.
Roaming Etsy I usually find a ton of beautiful things I would love to acquire but I never do, this time I had some monnies though
Spoiled myself with jewelery and awesome art: [flickr]photo:4745507985[/flickr] [flickr]photo:4745520877[/flickr]